Name: Ed
Age:22
Location: Finland
Occupation: Short term work about to re-apply for University
PUA Experience: 0 experience in PUA.

So decided to register on this forum to get some tips and become better socially. For me usually hardest part is approach or finding what to say after hi pretty much.

I took a first step to be more social at work talking and making small talk and found it to not be that hard.

I'm a tall guy 185 cm and not fat more on the skinnier side. I'm good looking guy but I lack the confidence.

At the moment I feel little bit alone just a bit down. I'm focusing on getting my studies going(getting into University) finding a permanent job so I can get my own apartment, I also want to get back into gym or start doing Muay thai.

I guess from outside persperctive I might appear intimidating or just in my thougths daily I admit that. I do not make that much eye contact just a brief one and do not smile that much since I often do not feel like it.

Getting my teeth whitened next month so that will make me smile more hopefully. I do not have a bad life or anything so do not know why I don't smile more.

One of my problems is that I do not know how to do this alone since kind of have no friends. Was a bit bullied at my school and in upper secondary school I was just studying focusing on getting good grades.

I'm capable of flirting and did that with this one girl on regular while I was studying in Upper secondary school.

This post has been too long already but just want to get better at this. I'm the type of person that if I feel something is wrong or not working I try to fix it and find a solution.

So took a first step by being more social at work I find it easier to talk 1 on 1 than in groups. With talking in groups I struggle with that so tips would be needed in that area.

Also need to learn to make more eye contact, smile and sometimes I have tendency either to lower my voice too much or speak too fast.

Basicly want more out of my life.

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A young guy with a big wang but not so much of confidence with girls YET.