| Hey, everybody! I'm AntiSoz and I'm 22 living around the Richmond area. I got into the "game" when I moved to VA 3 years ago, and found it a perfect opportunity for a fresh start. As far as methods I use, I just try to focus on feeling good and being in the moment, and when I can pull that off, I do alright. I usually accomplish this by remembering my 5 rules of pickup: Don't get upset, The world doesn't owe you squat, Be courageous, Everybody (both you and the woman/women) should be having fun, and If all else fails, you did it for the story. However, I am more than open to adding a few more ideas into my arsenal. A few other passions of mine are; guitar and composing, and really anything artistic. I also enjoy brushing up on my math, which may not be the greatest time for a lot of people, but hell, it makes me happy. As far as my goals in the pickup area of my life, I want to be the best I can be. I want my friends, who are sexually frustrated, to have me as a reliable source to help them with their struggles when it comes to women. I'd like to help both men and women be able to have fun interacting with one another. I know how much it sucks, but I also understand that before I can help anybody, I need to help myself. I have moments when I say all the right things and can f-close a woman in our first meeting, and in a few instances, in less than an hour. My big problem is, I want to be able to do that with consistency. In addition, I don't function the best around big groups of people. I found my weaknesses come early on in the interaction, but once I get a woman isolated, my success rate skyrockets.
As far as my back story goes, like many of us on here I did not really flourish when it came to women, or talking to anybody. I am naturally very introverted, and being around new or large groups of people just wears me down. When I moved to VA, I decided I wanted to change that, and began taking notes and journals of my progress of maintaining posture, eye contact, and just saying "hi" to people in the street. I found some great online sites that gave wonderful advice, read a few books, and really wanted to pursue being the best me I could be. I began to be able to hold better conversation (although this is still a weak point) but even more so, I learned to be more assertive when it came to kino- an attribute I affiliate with my high closing rates. I just now stumbled on this site, I heard great things about it, and the community looks really supportive!
To everyone here, I hope whatever I can offer will help you in your endeavors, and vice versa.
-AntiSoz
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