| Hi everybody, i'm very new at this sort of thing, never been involved in a forum before, but have read/studied a whole lot and to certain degree even practised pickup. The ones that i at the moment are most indulged in are sinn, simple pickup, and to some degree Richard la Ruina, aka: (gambler). I feel stuck in terms of my game, and is not now getting very much at all done in this area. i desperately want to, but is bogged down by both my circumstances, mainly financially but also by the fact that i've tried at least a dussin times and are getting some action but only to the extent that i perhaps score a one-time deal, a one-night stand if you will, and usually with a girl that i settle for. I don't want to settle but i do not either want to go girl-less all the fucking time, as it slowly among things fucks up my self confidence and leaves my with the feeling that this is an area which i can't control. I want to enjoy pickup, and be more enthusiastic about going about it, but now it just feels like a demanding chore that is forced upon me. This creates a lot of anxiety and messes with all the areas of my life. I probably wrote more than you should introducing yourself, but if anybody have any experience when it come to this sort of problem and knows what to do, i would be very interested to hear about it! I live in Sweden, Stockholm and would also be very happy to hear from anybody from this area, but are in general glad to get any sort of advice here. Best // Mike.
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