Hey. Just wanted to introduce myself. I am a 36 yr old Vet. Semper Fi!!! I live in a extremely rural area and don't really have much of an interest in sharpening or what have you for game. I am me, I get what I need. I play the field and all and am just interested in sharing my experiences. I enjoy reading the posts on here and if anyone can use any of my posts have at it. I do the whole POF thing but do 75% of my dating online. Most of what I share will be from real world experience. My POF account is out there but I very very rarely contact women on there, they usually come to me. I guess my take on the PUA life is figure out what works for you, practice and sharpen and be who you are. If you don't like who you genuinely are then genuinely change. Being genuine is only fair to yourself.

Here is my POF profile. Don't copy and pasta, be yourself. I incorporated stuff from what I have seen from others posts about POF profiles and turned it into me but also added my own stuff. So credit to whoever is due dome credit, (I don't remember)


A little about me
I am employed full time at a job I enjoy
I actually read books and cook and I like to do the latter with someone at times
I have two of the most beautiful amazing girls in the world
I like to travel, wish I could do more
I spend lots of time with my family and extended family
I am a combat veteran of the Marine Corps
Have a good sense of humor, with a sarcastic edge

I enjoy going out as much as staying home, a hole in the wall bar, bonfires, playing craps, cuddling to a movie, spending time with my kids, laughing, blah blah blah.

A little about me and you

I can be cuddly and empathetic when necessary, but I'm not a punching bag. I'll roll up my sleeves and carry you when needed, but I won't repeatedly rescue you from self-created drama. I'll surprise you with chocolate or a flower when you're PMS'ing or having a bad day, but if you go off on me for no reason the I will put the flower in a cup on my counter top, pop in my favorite movie and eat the chocolate myself.

Relationships are not fairy tales, I'm not prince charming or a frog, and you're not a princess. It takes work from two. If you don't get it, well refer to my IQ statement when you get there. We can all bring fantasy to life, but we have to check back in occasionally.

I won't control nor manipulate, I'll just move on. If you are a control freak, we won't get along. If you thrive by playing manipulative games, get lost!!

I am a guy and love guy things, you are a girl and enjoy girl things. We can do them together at times, apart at times. Its amazing how an open mind and good company can make things enjoyable.

I am a 30 something male, so don't complain that I don't go prancing around taking pictures of every meal I eat, drink I order, and so on. I love the outdoors and my girls, if you didn't gather that. I think I take more pictures in the********** every year then I do the rest of the year.

I'm not actively looking for a fling, a one nighter, or "activity" partner (although they do happen, a guy who says they don't is either lying or inept, which do you want?). I'm not looking for a new wife (although I suppose it could happen). There's happy middle-ground between those two extremes, whether casual or committed. And no, just because I think I'm attractive doesn't automatically make me a player. If you're a hottie, does that automatically make you a slut? I am looking for someone I find attractive who also takes care of themselves. However, if your bra size exceeds your IQ, move on. I'm not impressed by looks alone, if that's all you've got, we probably won't hit if off. Intelligence, humor, and a kind gentle heart go a long way when coupled with a beautiful smile. If I am not attracted to you, that doesn't mean I am shallow, mean, or an ***hole.

First Date
I have no idea, something enjoyable and by the seat of my pants and spontaneous