| Hi!
I'm a 22 yo french RAFC, so you'll have to excuse me if i make any spelling mistakes.
I'm not new to the game but haven't practised seriously for a while. I'm decent at daygame but pretty lame at nightgame.
My huge sticking point is kino. For some strange reason, I find it very hard and intimidating to get physical; and it very seriously harms my game. I absolutely don't want to sound arrogant, but I have no AA, no difficulty to DHV, have an interesting lifestyle, am quite handsome and know how to dress. I have no problem whatsoever to get into deep, intresting talks with girls that I like and build rapport; it's more of a vibe thing. I'd say that there are two types of girl for me : those whose company I enjoy and with whom I could have hour long discussions and the others with whom I have only minor interactions. But I suck at building sexual tension. And I mean, I really suck.
Numerous times, I've had 7s that were clearly intrested in me, even chasing me, and I've blown it by not getting into this flirting thing. It pisses me off, because I have a lot of friends that a so totally lousy with girls (engineering school ftw) that I feel blessed for having the social skills/physical appearance/confidence/social status that they so tremendously lack; yet my sucess rate while not zero is small. If feel like completely underachieving. It's like having a machinegun and still misssing my opponent in a straight corridor.
I might have other sticking points that I'm not aware of, but definitely escalation is the biggest. I even know why : sex has always been a huge taboo in my familly, and I still can't break free from my upbringing.
I hope to get some advices on this, and work hard to get beyond this; I'm eager to learn.
I'm looking to raise the quality of the girls I have relationships with; I want to finally date the top notch girls and this goes way beyond physical appearance.
Finally I love social experiments, and am excellent at it as long as it doesn't involve sex.
Let this new adventure begin!
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CHAT