| Hello all.
If you can't guess where i am from, i feel sorry.. But besides that, please call me Amsheagar. It means one without a name. Don't ask me from what language, I think i took it from a video game.
Yes, i am a geek.... I am 29 years old going on 30.
I got into "The Game" when i picked up a book with the same name. I have yet had the chance to put any of it into action, so i am a complete noob. So i've been studying the book for about a week now, and hope that it can help me... I have no game. I can get into conversations with women, and even make them laugh. I guess i just can't seal the deal.
I am into geeky things like Mythology, Games, Writing, Game Designing, and even some Non-Geeky things like Cycling, Driving, Hiking, and Skydiving. I find stuff like watching sports and fixing cars boring. I like things that can make me think, make me wonder and get my creative juices flowing. (usually they flow as fast as molasses....)
I want to think i want to get laid... but when it all comes down to it, i want to move out of my single life and actually meet someone who i can get into a real relationship with. But to do that, I got to make them look at me. I want to gain confidence. I want to believe in myself. I know that's the same thing, but I see a little bit of difference in them.
Like I said, it is easy for me to get into meaninglessly conversations with people. Its just the closing that i have trouble with...
Recently, i have been flirting with this woman who worked with me. I flirted with her for about 4 months, then she was switching schools. Before she left, i invited her to a BBQ at a friends house. She said maybe... which i should have guessed it meant no. about a week ago, i sent her a gift of chocolate to her new job. She thanked me for the gift and informed me not to talk to her anymore... that i scared her...
I honestly don't know how i scared her, because all of the conversations we had, she was laughing or rolling her eyes at me. (Note, there could have been a mix up in translation. She is Japanese and i am American.)
I realized that i spent 4 months trying to get close to this woman, only to have wasted that time. This one event has convinced me that i need to change my approach and get assistance in picking up women.
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