Hi all,

Since I'm not sure whether it's compulsory to introduce myself here before I post stuff, I'd like to take the opportunity to say "Hi".

I'm a Dutch guy, 40 years old and despite my fairly averige looks (you know, little luxury belly and fully shaven head because of withdrawing hairline) I'm usually very much appreciated by the ladies once they get to know me a bit. However, getting them to talk to me has been an issue for a long time, and at times still is.

I also am an occasional swinger. Apart from the sex, I think this scene to be very interesting to observe as a by-stander because the social dynamics are much more obvious than "outside the scene".

I'm not new to the PUA-thing, have read a lot about it, tried it, and found out there's a lot to it. But I think the material often too much focussed on getting results instead of the deeper sense behind it. That's why I started to read a lot about biosociology, biosexuality, psychology and even some astrology, because social dynamics mixed with personal characteristics is what makes PU eventually work. (Right now I am getting to a point that I could almost write a comprehensible review about the coherency of all these factors, and maybe I will someday.)

For now, have fun.

Joep

Hey man welcome to the forums.

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