| Hello to all the brothers in PUA land
I am 32 years old, never been in a relationship, never had a girlfriend, and have struggled for depression for some years.
During December 2013, I took a conscious decision to start turning my life around, and committed to myself to make at least 2 - 3 profound changes in my life which would improve the quality of my life and get me into a relationship. I value female company took highly I think, to the point where it makes me desperate. Specifically, I attach an incredible amount of importance of getting acceptance from HB's, which in my experience happens on a social / professional level, but stops right there.
I can report that, since December, I have been approaching more women than I have ever done so in my entire life! Although nothing has come of it, I believe I am starting (only starting) to conquer the fear of failure, approach anxiety, and of course the dreaded feeling of rejection. I still have a while to go though.
I read a lot of the posts here on this awesome forum, have been doing a lot of inner game techniques as taught by David D and Ross Jeffries - incredibly helpful stuff. But there is nothing quite like practice on the field.
What confounds my problems, guys, is my history of isolation and loneliness. I have never developed a social circle, and find myself struggling to get people (even friends) to choose to go out for movies, coffee, supper, etc. I an thinking that women pick up on this need to acceptance from others.
Thanks for all the wonderful posts, and material. Look forward to chatting to you guys.
Mullet
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