Need help. Travelling a 1000 miles to see a girl...good idea



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 9:20 pm 
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So I met this girl at a wedding and I just fell in love with her, (ok! That might be an exaggeration, but I really like her!) started speaking to her and we hit it off pretty well, turns out she's not from the same city (Mumbai), about a 1000 miles away.(Delhi)
After the wedding I sent her a YouTube Vid we were talking about, she sent me a frnd request, we spoke for a bit, she asked for my number so that she could send a few photos from SPAM, we chatted a bit again, and she casually mentioned that I should come visit.

I've decided to go, I was planing to go to Delhi anyways to meet a couple of friends and wanna get there before it gets hot, it's chilly there and I love the weather.
Have a few friends that I'll be staying with for a couple of days.

So, I need to make sure we see each other quite a bit the 2 days I'm there, how do I manage that?
What do I tell her?
Dating is extremely different in India we don't pick women up at clubs or online sites. People just hook up through friends, and our mutual contact is her sister (Not the best way to approach her)
I'm looking for great text, fb ideas that just really makes her want to meet me while I'm there.
So ideas, ideas, ideas!!
Not trying to simply 'pick her up' I really like this chick.
I'd say she's a 9, but she's really smart (so we'll round it up to a 10). I'm average, (dunno if that's a 5 or 7) , but I'm lot of fun, and I'm a rocket scientist, so hopefully that works in my benefit.
Ideas, ideas IDEAS!!


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2014 10:24 am 
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The question you need to ask yourself is Do I want a long distance relationship? Do you know what it's like to live 1000 miles away from your gf? Long story short - it sucks

Lets say you see her, sparks fly, then you gotta go home. I speak from a little experience here - it sucks.

Anyways,

You don't need amazing ideas to bait her into your company. 'I'm here for today and tomorrow' is incentive enough as it sounds like you've already done the work. Just make sure she knows in advance when you're going, so she can't double book.

I assume you know what she likes to eat? "Hey I've arrived, I'm thinking you me and a pizza. You free around 2"?

have fun - I will say the experience of travelling in order to meet a girl is exciting, it's what comes later I warn you about


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2014 10:29 am 
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a long distance relationship can suck, i know..
have already been in one...but i can keep travelling now, plus i was in a relationship with somone i worked for 2 years...we saw each other at work and after it. kinda lost a lotta my frnds. so honestly i could do with some distance now.
builds anticipation.


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2014 9:56 pm 
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Can't you marry her? Talk with your family. I know in some cultures it's normal.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 30, 2014 5:49 pm 
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Thts very futuristic


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