So I used to lurk the forums over at FastSeduction (which apparently merged with this forum? or got redesigned? I don't remember). I can't stand the bar/club scene. I'm a very introverted person and these types of social gatherings cause a bit of anxiety. Unless I'm with a close group of friends, anyway. I'm more into the bowling alleys, pool halls, etc, but I don't even game there. Social circle though, I've gotten all of my lays through friends of my friends.

I'm somewhat of a Pickup Scientist, I hardly test theories, but I definitely absorb them. I've noticed a change in myself since I started looking/lurking this topic over 4 years ago. It has increased my confidence and gotten me out of the omega AFC mindset and actually gotten me laid, though it was more of an attitude adjustment than a practice of technique. I guess that goes hand in hand though.

Anyways, glad to be a part of the community. Just went through a rough breakup, which has done nothing but boost my confidence back to where it was at the start of the relationship, and i'm getting laid tomorrow night (which is less than a week since d-day). My goal is to get laid as quickly and often as possible.

Hey man.

Most dudes invest energy into learning game because of a breakup. It's like having a guidebook on how to not fuck up a relationship.

If you're just getting back into things there are a few things you need to keep in mind:

-You might want to temporarily lower your standards. You're bound to have a few fumbles, so you might as well just start at the bottom and work your way up.
-That being said, make sure you're seeing about three regular girls. It keeps things lively, and if one chick flakes there's always at least one other that's down to chill.
-Also, remember that rejection is just a thing. Who cares?

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