| Hey everyone,
I watched the PUA the tv show a few years ago and was so intrigued by it that i did reading and tried to learn but never really applied it fully as i was now that i look back on it, lazy in terms of pursuing women and learning the art. Keyword there being lazy or to an extent over valuing myself for the past few years, I've realized i have been waiting for things to fall into my lap in terms with women and i would only ever pursue if it was a convenience.
I will give you a story to try to shed some light on what i now know my problem has been.
My buddy moved out about 3 months ago, and he moved in with 2 girls, the first time i met one of the girls she was all over me as she was drunk the first time i met her.. we were picking our friend up from the airport. Fast foward two weeks, and we ended up in bed together after a few drinks with everyone else just outside the room in the lounge. We were cuddling and there was alot of sexual tension, but i told her flat out we wouldn't be doing anything because I didn't want to make an advance out of respect for my friend (Some of you may be thinking right now, WTF DUDE? but my friend has been burned before, one of his best mates fuck his gilfriend about 3 years ago and i felt it was a sensitive area, so i would clear it with him before i made any sort of advancement.) Anyway, back to the point of me being lazy - I would only see her when i went to see my buddy, as opposed to actually trying to initiate meetings with her, simply because it was a very easy, convenient way to be able to see her but at the same time got me no where. I've realized this now and started initiating her for some alone time and we will see how I go.
Anyway, long story short
- I've realized what i was doing wasn't working, want to change it
- Have come her to learn and gather information, and hopefully soon enough be sharing information and advice too!
Cheers, Simon.
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