hi im d from bradford, need some help im 37 been married for 13 years just broke up and looking for HB's. out of practice used to have a good natural skill with HB but now my confidence is really low could do with some tips to get going im using a dating site and doing ok by being cocky and cheeky and funny. but when i meet the HB i get very nervous and fluff up.

also im a single dad should i use that angle to pull HB single mums i have had some success but by playing mr nice guy. they like it at first but then end up as friends even after kissing a few we ended up as friends??? maybe i was to nice and caring??? it was an act i over did it i think i should neg more? i never neg. what you think??? thanks really need help badly.

I got into at 27 which is older than most on here, i think the biggest problem for older guys is breaking bad habit not as much as a problem for younger guys. You just have to faith that you can do it and stick to the basics.

As for age game is almost universal across all age brackets especially 20yrs + .

If you used to be good with chicks shouldn't be a problem reigniting it, I seen lots of guys in their late 30's pull heaps of girls even girls in their early 20's.

Goold luck man.

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The older you get the easier it gets mate. There are a lot of women going through their first time alone after getting divorced from their childhood sweethearts or young marriages.

You get far less BS from older women. be aware though they're very vulnerable and it's a scary time so you have to be the guy who they can trust.

This might be wrong, but I got a 19 year-old girl 1 years ago, almost by accident. It was great, and it lasted for a few months. We both knew it wasn't serious which made it amazing. I did feel a little guilty about it anyway. Now I'm 38, and looking again, obviously for someone older than that.

hey man,

first of all, i must tell you that you're never too old to attract and pick up women. i'm not just saying this because
i have lately reached 40 but because i simply know that you can unleash your best potential at effortlessly sexually attracting and picking up women once you get the right focus.

as for confidence, i could warmly recommend that you use two ways to boost up your self confidence.
the first way is by following the three second rule that hugely helped me open my eyes to see why women
love confidence in men so much. to remind you, this rule says that you have only 3 seconds to approach a
woman that really turns you on. if you hesitate to do it within those first 3 seconds, I'd suggest you forget her, and focus on approaching another woman.

the second way you can boost your confidence is by simply getting out of your daily comfort zones. what this means is you'd decide to do things that you're not used to do because you're either shy or scared to do them.
for example, if you've always kind of avoided to jump over that long queue in your local supermarket when having only 1 or 2 items to buy because you were shy to do that, now is the time to just do it. once you do it, you'll start feeling amazingly great about yourself.

guess what. women's sharp intuition easily picks up on a man's feelings and attitude.

and, how jumping over that long queue can help you boost up your confidence?

once you break any of your comfort zones, you'll start experiencing two things:
1. you'll start to like yourself more and you'll be extremely proud of yourself
2. you'll get an instant confidence boost so that you'll kind of start feeling as if
you'd like to break the same or any new comfort zone or fear immediately after the one
you've just broken. you'll feel like you've got confidence on steroids, if you like.

and, breaking that new comfort zone could be confidently approaching a new woman
somewhere in public.

but there's a bit more to successfully approaching and picking up women than just having
self confidence.

another key thing is getting totally comfortable with your real sexual desires for women.
there's a simple exercise that helped me in this department.

to get comfortable with sharing your sexual desires with women, i'd recommend you try to
spare only a few minutes a day fearlessly setting your eyes on random women's hot body parts
that turn you on the most. for example, visit a latino dancing gig where there're often many sexy women
and just do this little sexual energy boosting exercise by simply staring at her tits or her legs for 10 to
15 minutes. this stuff is supposed to help you boost up your sexual confidence that's as equally important
for your success with women as your self confidence.

of course, you still have to know how the whole attraction and seduction things work but at any case
you always need to have these two types of confidence.

finally, there's one more thing that i should've perhaps said first because it's that important.

everytime you go out, whether it be your daily errand or going out on a Saturday night, decide to get rid
of all the pressure of having to approach or pick up any woman. doing so can help you get as laidback and playful
as jerks. you know that jerks never go out worrying about how they will do this or that when they're around women. they simply do it as and when they get the opportunity to meet a woman, one woman at a time.

to recap, for success with women, you need to do 4 key things:
1. boost up your self confidence
2. boost up your sexual confidence
3. empty your mind from all your pressures of having to approach or pick up any woman because
that will help you instantly get rid of all your approach anxiety along with other things that used to
mees up your approaches to women.
4. make sure to learn how the attraction and seduction work.

hope this helps.

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