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Hello, everybody here:
I'm Adolf, 25-year-old guy from Mexico City.
I'll be short in this one...
The reason why I'm here comes from 3 years ago. I found a girl by that time, M... she became my gf after a 6-month friends-with-benefits relationship. I fell in love, it was natural for us, I was the bad boy and she was the nice pretty girl. As I said, I was a natural with her... I was happy, I was in love, she knew everything about me and accepted me as I was.
3 years later (and that means a month ago) she left me for another guy, needless to say, I was devastated, truly devastated, break-up was fucked up, I even got hit in group by around 6 guys "friends with her", she even texted me from the other guy's house, telling me just to be "ok". No guilt on her, she is just a woman who derserves and wants to be loved, something that I, throughtout the time, forgot to give her. I let her, with my actions, do what she did to me.
I'm happy to say I feel much better now, been working in myself a lot physically and emotionally a lot. But I don't forget I was guilty for what happened. I dont wanna forget, because I dont wanna commit the same mistakes again. I lost total control of myself, and acted more like a kid than like a man... I regret that.
Now on friday I dated this girl I had been friends for around 2 years, she was also a love interest of mine (actually we happened to become "lovers" while I was with M... one of the many mistakes I did, but she left after we engaged in a verbal fight about a job around a year ago... I did not really care about she leaving, neither did she, we became friends again some time after... just friends), we had a great date. I asked her to be my gf after it, she said yes... with doubts... but today she told me she was not really looking for a relationship and couldn't promise to be loyal to me... I did not get upset or nothing, it's just that I realized there's still more things I need to put in order with myself.
That's basically my story, the main reason why I'm here it's because I want to overcome the old me and become someone better, it's hard to describe... but you my fellow friends as men... i think you understand what I'm talking about.
See ya around!
Hey Adolf,
I understand your story very well. To avoid the same mistake with new women, you should get into the habit of revealing your real sexual interest to the woman you meet for the first time.
Of course, you won't just approach a random woman and say to her something like 'hey sexy, i wanna fuck you' in order to show her that you're sexually interested in her. instead, you want to approach her the way you show her your thoughtful respect and your real sexual desires within this first two minutes of meeting her. What I've just told you is the proven formula for attracting women. And, this formula doesn't just come from me but also from women themselves.
Women say that they want to be both respected and physically desired by a man at the same time.
When you understand this, you might soon leave this forum forever because you'll learn the truth on
what really turns women on. And the truth is once again that women want to be respected and desired
by men at the same time.
Man, here's the good news. Once you get this truth on what women really want from men, attracting women
will become as easy as drinking water for you. You'll know how to attract women.
So, here's how the attraction thing works.
To attract women successfully, you need to do 2 key things right:
1. Show your sexual interest in her by playfully throwing a sex banter or a sexually charged compliment at her
the way you make her curious enough to wonder whether you really like her or not. You need to know that a successful attraction all comes down to building up that curiousity in a woman.
So, showing her that you're sexually interested in her and making her curious about you should be your first
attraction steps. And, by the way, this is also how you actually demonstrate your high value in the woman's eyes.
2. Make sure that she's sexually interested in you right up front.
The way you'd do this is by qualifying her interest in you.
The best way you could qualify her interest right after you've shared your sexual feelings for her in the previous step 1 is by saying something like this to her: "...i've seen you sitting here alone and got a feeling that you might be a very open-minded and adventurous person that's the person who like to try new things in life. this may or may not be true, but while sitting next to you I now feel so comfortable in your company. I feel free and relaxed enough to try to do new things together with you....."
You get the idea. You want to make her start thinking about you as her potential fuck-buddy. And the reason why this way of qualifying women is widely used by top players is because it's proven over and over again that
all you need to get her horny about you is help her get thoughts about having sex with you.
And, women themselves like to say that they like to take it easy when getting sexually excited about a man. Women say that they like when a man does little things for them that help them think of that man in a sexual way. And, these little things could be anything from a smile, a simple compliment or a touch.
Another thing you need to keep in mind when attracting a woman is that you need to make her feel special.
This means that she wants to know that you're showing an interest in her for who she is or for a certain quality that she has. And, this brings me back to the qualifying thing.
When qualifying a woman, you don't need to pause and wait for her to answer to you verbally. You could end up the process of qualifying her by simply saying to her: "You know I am really grateful to now be with you because you really make me feel comfortable and feel great so..." By doing so, you'll be both paying her respect and also making her special. And, this is exactly what women want from men before they really get sexually attracted to such men.
The way you'll know she's sexually interested in you is even if she only nods her head by letting you know that she agrees with everything you've just said to her. Of course, apart from her nodding to you, you may also spot other signs of her interest that you should act on immediately.
Finally, always make sure that you qualify her interest immediately after throwing that sex banter at her. If you miss to qualify her right after you've successfully caught her attention with your sex banter, her attraction to you could be lost very quickly.
Hope all this helps you.
Bruno
CHAT