Hi everyone, my username is not my real name. But i couldn't figure out an original idea for a name xD
I'm 18 years old and i'm in my last year of school. A little more than three weeks ago, i decided to start gaming the hottest chick in my class HB9. I already knew a bit about game but i had not read into it for a while. Then i found Adam Lyons video from the 21 convention about the PEN model personality test and i tried to analyze her as well as i could. I figured that she was very (pshychotistic??) whatever, she likes badboys. So i tried to say really controversial things around her and tried to be as big a laid back, not caring, asshole as i could be.. And thankfully it seemed to work.
So about a week ago, we had a school party. I was chatting up different chicks all night and i tried to ignore her to see how she would react. After about an hour, she and her friend (all classmates) and one of the more beta (is that what you guys call the opposite of an alpha?) guys in my class came over and grabbed me and told me to come with them to a bar. So i did, and i almost started a few fights on the way with random guys who were hitting on the girls from my class, because i was trying to be a badass (sorry mum ).
But the point is that the hot chick was really loving it and even insulted some of them and went over to me and told me what she had said o them (all proudly)
So we got to the bar and when i got a minute alone with her, i took my chance and tried to kiss her. She was really into it, so she started grinding on me while we were kissing, and i was sexually escalating, grabbing her ass, slipping my hand under her clothes and pulling her hair for about 1,5 hour. Then i stopped it but i couldn't take her home because in the end she had to go home, because the other girl from my class was to'o drunk to go home alone, and the other guy had already left..
3 days later (monday)
I asked her to talk to me on the hallway, and i told her that i liked her and that i wanted to see her. I't probably came out a bit desperate i guess, because she told me maybe and that she had come out of a bad relationship with a guy from her old class and she wasn't ready for a new one.. (it's been 3 years since then)
Then when she came home, she sent me a text message telling me that she didn't feel the same way about me and she was sorry.
And now she looks sad all the time, and she has seen me around with other girls. I met her in a bar yesterday where she hugged me really intimately.
But i was so sure she was attracted to me.. Do you guys think that she just lost the attraction, like that? Is that possible? Should i just drop it?

Anyway, that's my story.. I'll try and keep you updated on how it goes but i'm guessing it's not gonna happen between us.

It is called buyer's remorse. Happens all the time. Whether you close the first night or not, the next day she might feel like a slut or guilty of not resisting. Buyer's remorse happens when you successfully pull pull pull pull etc, without pushing. As Mystery puts it, "many people think it is the man's job to escalate and the woman's job to resist. This is wrong. It is the man's job to do both." This results in lack of trust, but if you push her away every now and then, it'll make her chase you back.

The way to go is to salvage this is to self-disqualify. Say things like "you're right, we were going too fast," "I'll never make you do something you don't feel comfortable with," or even "sure, let's just be friends." She's going to be like "oh... I guess he doesn't have one thing in his mind, like other guys. I can trust him."

Thank you so much! That makes sense, i'm so happy i shared this now

Hey guys, so i texted her and told her that i hope she don't feel awkward around me and that i think we should be friends.
She wrote back that she didn't feel awkward and that she hope i don't feel awkward either. But she does think it is a bit weird. And she agreed that we should be friends.

I hope this doesn't mean she will have lost attraction for me.. Anyway i really appreciate you guys help and i will keep updating.

nah dude the attraction is still there just be cool. buyers remorse. dont cut her off but dont chase either, let her come back to you

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good to hear teh update. Now, watch this video by Gambler if you want to rebuild attraction:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CC_7NfZ1-Js

Hey guys.

So since my holiday ended which was yesterday, i haven't talked to HB9 1 on 1 as of yet. I'm currently sitting besides another hot chick from my class (HB 8,5) and i've been chatting with her a bit, a VERY LITTLE BIT. Problem is that i can't keep a conversation going with her xD Don't know what it is about her. But i thought it would make sense to make HB9 jealous, which would help if i could have some laughs with HB 8,5 during class.

HB9 is normally a cute but silent girl. But these few days she has been laughing really loudly so the whole class could hear her while sitting with this other guy. I know him and he has a girlfriend and he isn't a threat anyway, but i think she might be acting loud and all to get my attention. Because after i told her that i thought we should be friends, i have kind of ignored her. I haven't looked at her once, and i try to be as alpha as i can. I also think my friend (from first post) have told her about all the girls i was making out with in my holiday, because he is close friends with HB9. So now i think she is seeking approval from different guys. Her closest two friends haven't been at school the last couple of days, so that could explain why she is sitting with guys she normally don't talk to in class.

If we assume she is seeking approval, then it's on right? So if i go out this weekend and meet her (Happens often) and i notice any sign of approval seeking behavior, that would be a massive IOI right?