Hi all,

I'm not really a pua, but am interested and use some of the tech just in my normal life. What really helped me was realizing that all the writing and texting and profiles and stuff that is current culture is all REAL people. I started to be much more giving but targeted and Ernest which lead to developing good connections with girls I liked. I'm not exactly lazy, but I don't like excessive writing-drama in a relationship, or a long-term relationships, and in fact telling girls this pretty much off the bat put everyone on the same page.

I found out I was offering a kind of 'see how it goes attitude' and because women don't seem to have a clue what they what most of the time, it turns out 'see how it goes' is what they were thinking too. When did you ever sit down to work in the morning with a deadline and think to yourself - "umm... gonna see how it goes..." and then actually expect to get anything done that day or ever? Why something actually quite important in life like 'having a relationship' for a women evokes a disastrously blaze work ethic I'll never know.

For me, I just think about lions. Lions don't look like they're doing much, but the jungle is happy to put them in charge. They are playful, and honest about their motives. Be helpful and others will help you, its a totally win win situation with girls and in life in general!

-mig