Hello everyone,

My name is Tlove and I live in norther Santa Barbara County in California. A little bit about myself I'm 5'7" Mexican decent. Up until 3 months ago I weighed 260lbs I was grossly over weight. For the past three months I have been working out 6 times a week and eating health 6 days a week. Since then I dropped from a waist size 42 to a waist size 34. I have been on Body for Life for three months this Saturday. About 1 month in to the workout program my wife left me, she moved out and a week later I was served with divorce papers. Its been hard but I think the workout program is helping allot, its what I'm focused on and it keeps my mind busy, have to make sure I eat and train to its standards. Even though I'm not over the relationship and my divorce is not final yet I need to move on with my life. Many guys deal with this kind of stuff differently and well I'm a social guy and I hate being alone. I think I need to start talking to woman in general and start approaches. Approaching woman has always been a problem for me, but once the conversation gets going I get stuck in friend zone, not because the woman doesn't find me attractive or anything but I am a wuss when it comes to the kino and making the next move. I guess I am afraid of rejection. There is this girl at my job who is about a 7-8, when we first met it was instant flirtation on. We joked, I made fun of her, her funny faces. We laughed till we cried. She would come over from behind the counter and we would play fight, push each other, she would make me coffee. For no reason she would find a excuse to touch me, what did I do??? I got stuck there, I didn't move forward, I continued to do this over and over again. Eventually it got old, I think. I am not trying to salvage this but I want to prevent if from happening again. I have seen many woman frequently that somehow live in my area or work near were I work and well do to this I have not started conversations just yet with them. Anyways that's my long intro I hope I can find some cool guys to go sarging with me??? lol anyways I'm looking forward to this new chapter in my life.

TLOVE!!!! out..............