Hello I'm Foyz 26 from Canada. I'm coming here for answers.
A little bit about me Is, I was married once for a couple years,we were high school sweethearts, ended with her leaving me for a guy that she works with.
And then I ended up reading 1 book and looked at a couple forums and on pua I learned a little but not enough!
I went boating one day and I picked up a random girl on this pier, she just wanted to go boating so I let on my boat and took her tubing. Anyways we started dating shortly after and through out the year I kinda expected that she might be on the slutty side. She 22 told me over and over shes not like other girls. she acts older and decent. And told me she wanted kids and a life with me and want to get married one day. I was already married before, so I wanted to take it easy and enjoy hangin with my friends she came with me everywhere we had adventure and fun all the time in the past year. we both also work a shift of 15 days on and 6 days off and in the past 2 weeks Monday the 15 she just randomly moved out and left no good reasons and the reasons she did gave me were things that could have been fixed in an argument. And before this all happened she told complete strangers that she loved me and was gonna marry me one day. Ok after she breaks up with me on the 15 she goes out to the bar 2 days later on wednesday, while I am house boating and some of my buddies see her through out the night with a guy and she is looking and cuddling him and making out with him the same way she would with me my buddy said in the bar, and they couldn't believe it so they took a picture and sent it to me the next day I called her no answer I texted her and she replied as if nothing was going on "hey what's up" all I wanted was to talk or get answers. She blew me off. And wouldn't talk to me and she tries to tell me it's because of me and the small reasons. It feels like she ripped my heart because I was married already and I had a guard up before, I didn't want to let her in at first and she just kept trying to get in my heart and told me everything I wanted to hear, the worst part of it all I met this guy 3 weeks ago. He works with her, he came over and shook my hand and cleaned out my fire pit on Canada day! And now she tells me she loves him and she is living with him. it all just happened in the last 3 weeks and now I am here for answers. and to help my self get over her because it hurts, I can hardly eat its worse then the divorce I went through.

Thanks man, yeah I distracted, I was gonna say that, I'm a genuine guy and I treated them like princesses. so I thought. I gave them flowers every once in a while, I took time to to choose gifts, I made things for them. I spent one on one time with them I took them for walks. I wasn't an ass. I did surprise birthday, I took them on dates. I feel like the last one might have been competing for my love because I have a lot of friends and they tell me all the time that they love me, and I like to hang out with them too. and she came with me everywhere. They both work with lots of dudes the wife was a welder and the ex worked on pipe line. I my self work away as well and I work in the oil and gas industry. The wife told me I worked away to much, the ex told me that she repeated her self to much in sense, she asked for a deep freeze from the garage and put it in the house, that was so long ago I can barely remember. I just think this guy flashed her the family that she wanted, because he has a daughter. By the way, she's already moved in with the guy so it really boggles my mind!

Ok I will and that's why I'm here is to help myself.
Thanks and you have a good weekend too.