Let me give you a little background on me. I am a 19 year old college student, I have always have trouble with girls. I have only recently found out about the PUA community and have been studying many sites and youtube videos and read part of "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I have spent the past year changing my appearance by spending hours at the gym and dieting and I dress nicer. I try to separate myself from all the snapback swag guys around my age. I notice this is one of my strengths when it comes to attracting girls. My biggest roadblocks are approach anxiety and putting myself in the friend zone. The first time I approached a girl I was really awkward but she was really friendly and I was shaking the whole time we conversated which seem to give her a really bad vibe. The main reason I got rejected was she had a boyfriend but I gained a little confidence from that and the next day on my way to class I introduced myself to this really cute girl walking my direction. She seem to really like me but I was too scared to ask for her number. I began to approach more girls even though I was super awkward and eventually I developed a reputation of being the campus creeper. Eventually that title faded away but it made my approach anxiety worse. I pretty much want to destroy my approach anxiety before I do anything else.