I am a new to 'the community' as I have heard it described. However I have had today off and spent half the day watching PUA videos on youtube (with gambler, Adam Lyons ect) and reading various threads on here after being made aware of the forums.
I am 17 and would consider myself to be quite a confident guy in general, however with girls I have no game and zero ability to esculate so I have decided to do something about it.
I used to have confidence issues due to being a fatty however 18months ago I began working out and now I am bigger than most people my age and get complimented about my muscular size my guys+girls alike at parties. Despite my change in physique I still lack confidence with girls however I am willing to make drastic changes as I did to my body.
I'm an average looking guy. About 6ft and have quite an confident way about me usually however when I am at parties (1year until I can go to clubs as in the UK) my way is not the same. I have considered putting this down to drink however thats just an excuse I need to improve my game.
I've only kissed 3girls and all of them have been the ones to make a move on me. I want this to change as I cannot relly on girls coming onto me if I want to get the women I want.
I am sick of girls hooking up with other guys (who I consider myself to be better than) despite showing interest in me. This happened this weekend in a party and I am irritated about it;
Some girl from college who I had been hitting on over the last week approached me in at this party to dance, and we did before I left. I then came to her and danced with her later before being distracted by something. 10minutes later she comes out to me on a balcony, turns me around and starts grinding the f*ck out of me and letting me dry f*ck her.This went on for about 3minutes before her friend came and took the girl from me saying she wanted to dance with her and dragged her into the middle of the dance-floor where it was crowded as f*ck. (i'm sure she just dissaproved of me being with her friend) Next time I see the girl she is with another guy
Positive note is that the girl came upto me in college and told me I was fun to be with when drunk and winked, so I believe she is attracted to me and I have a chance to sleep with her.
Any advice will be
greatly appreciated i am very willing to learn (currently reading interesting/important threads)
inb4 no regular members browse this section and I just wasted my time typing this stuff
CHAT