How's it going fellas (and ladies)?

I'll start by saying I've been lingering for about a week now and finally decided to join up because of the successes I have had that may be able to help other guys (which is why we're all here, right?) as well as decipher the things I could improve on.

I'm 23 and while I have slept with more women than most guys will ever sleep with, I'd still like to continue to expand. I'm seeing trends which means I'm doing the same things, but not quite sure how to approach changing it up... Most of the women I've either dated or flinged with, I met through mutual friends. I'm not gloating with overconfidence but I do have a tendency to overthink things and that's where I go wrong in situations where I look back and think "I coulda had her if I would/wouldn't have said/done that." Sometimes opening is just bad and sometimes that starts out great and later on, it goes sour.
You could say that I am a bit socially awkward anyway because I don't say a lot even when I'm out with friends which I don't do that often because most of my friends are married and don't go out either.
Basically, I'm just looking for consistency. Right now my buddy's ex who is moving back down here next month is dying to jump my bones... Last text from her:

"Make sure I can fuck you... don't become taken before I get there okay? If you do, no hard feelings... But you can't stop me from trying to fuck you."

But besides that, there's a few more on my radar that I'd like to close on and just generally get more consistent with a broader range of women.
Anyway, it's good to be here. Looking forward to learning and hopefully teaching some too. Thanks!