Hey pick up community, I go by the name cheemz. I'm here to change my life not just to seduce women but to reach that all elusive state of, 'pure confidence'. I want a complete overhaul in my life which includes sharing all of my insecurities and thoughts with anyone willing to help. I have picked up women before, but not in the 'slick' way i can imagine myself doing. Here is a basic map of my life and where I come from. I come from a quiet family my dad is a factory worker so he hardly goes out to socialize with friends, or has any type of social life at all . Ma is a stay at home mom and is more on the religious side of life. The environment i grew up in has always been a 'keep to yourself, stay out of trouble', and 'Don't take chances' type of attitude. Since i was born up until about two years ago I looked up to my older brother and thought "wow hes so cool". He always told me how he picked up so and so at this club, getting kicked out of clubs and getting into fights, basically just how he was the man and no one could touch him. So i grew up thinking that i was automatically going to have game when I grew up. I had the mentality that i was the shit and i was entitled to something whenever i went out and as i can see now it came off as arrogant know it all kid that has no game. Clearly this isn't the way i should be thinking. I met my ex about two years ago, she opened my eyes to many things being kind, open-hearted, Treating everyone with basic humanity that everyone is entitled to... respect and open mindedness. I have a friend who is a natural... sounds typical right? I grew up with him, he had a turban but the second he cut his hair the ladies just poured into his lap, i fell behind... his confidence has grown exponentially... everytime we go clubbing he gets numbers the respect from the club crew and playmates for a week. I want to be at that level, where that voice in my head isn't talking down to me, telling me i can't do it. I have those moments where I'm so amped up and ready to go and talk to anyone, but very rarely... the rest of the time I'm stuck in that "ughh okay fine" attitude. I want to blow ladies minds with my words.


My goals are to be the best i can be in the field, not a shred of doubt in my mind and a complete 'alpha male' attitude... No more AFC life style for me.

Cheers,
Cheemz

You're committed. And that's the best start you can get bro. Welcome to the community

Agreed^^^

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Thanks alot guys. I look forward to the adventure ahead.