hi guys, coming all the way from Malaysia, this scene is totally new to me.

I always has been a shy guy especially at talking to women. accompany that with my lack of skill, i have been walking a long lonely road for a few years now. But now, i'. determined to change and re-invent myself in 2 years time and hope will be able to gain a lot of experience from this forum.

Since my lack of skill, i really hope that you guys would extend a helping hand in showing me where to start cause when i was lurking in the forum, i was overwhelm.

Thanks in advance

Hey deadwitchdoctor ,

Awesome to have you on board , we all have to start from somewhere and like you, I have recently joined having a similar past story . From my experience so far i would say commitement and confidence are the main two skills which you need to focus on since there's no point in trying to attract beautiful women if you are too afraid to talk to them. Just curious , have you read "the game" by Neil Strauss ? It's a very good read and is a excellent way to learn the background of pua.

hope this helps



xCHANGEx

hey,

i am committed, but i really don't have the confidence. i see a lot of beautiful girl in my office, but never dare to approach them. i feel like i'm lacking something.

and on that Neil Strauss book, i guess i'm gonna head to my local bookstore and grab a copy.

Haha you sound very similar to me , confidence is a major issue for me too , and i know malaysia has many beautiful women , are you near kl ? And that book will help you out alot , check out my other thread in the introductions called complete newbie beginning of a journey , we discussed alot about simple exercises to build up confidence there , we can all improve but it will take time and patience but you will get there !

xCHANGEx

yeah i live near kl, in fact my office is 5 minutes walk to KLCC.

will check out your threads. i guess i got a lot of work to do to build up confidence.

Just wondering how old are you ? And yeah just try find out as much info you can , thats what the community is here for

xCHANGEx

i'm 26 yo....i used to spend all of my time imagining picking up girls but never got the courage, well, got a few, but got rejected, then spiral down into depression, and become introvert. i pretty much wasted 3 years of my life moping. but not anymore...that why i turned to this forum.

Haha its time to believe in yourself , i thought you'd be around my age from your username , ex d3 player ? Lol and yes change will come , just keep faith and keep moving forward ,


xCHANGEx

around your age?....older or younger?...

unfortunately i dont play d3, but i do play games though...

and i just pick up the book....

I'm in th early 20s and yes i used to play alot of games haha and good man , go read the book and let me know what you think XD

has read almost 100 pages....i cant believe that it really happen, style make it look like very its very easy to pick up women...

Yeah i know what you mean , hes an expert haha , glad you are reading the book , just wondering what sort of girls are you trying to get ? 10/10 ? Certain race ? Rich girls ? Its important to know what you want


xCHANGEx

type of girl: 1)petite 2)8/10 3)Race: Malay/Korean

my long term goal is to find a girl that could be wife material,

and i found out the hard way that most girl are materialistic. So, too find someone who can connect of deeper level, i need to weed out the bad one. so this is where the PUA skill could be of help.

Hahaha nice man , go for it ! I'm guessing your'e a Malay guy, don't be afraid to set high targets, I'm hopefully looking for 10/10 Asian gem I can call my wife. But I guess I have a lot of searching to do. Girls are definitely materialistic, but some do have a heart buried in there somewhere. And I suppose it's up to us to tell which girl has value and which one is just looking for something quick or money.

Have you nearly finished the game yet? I just finished the book today, and it is a very interesting read. It took me around 3 days to finish it on the train journeys home and in my lunch breaks but I believe it's a very good start. I'm on to another book now and soon I have to start applying these theories to real life XD.

xCHANGEx

sorry for the late reply, was quite busy at work even to peek a little bit into the forum....i'm half way there, i was quite busy this week but manage to squeeze in some time....i have to juggle with my workout and to prepare for my license exam....i got a lot things to change in my life...