Hey all, I'm completely new to the PUA scene, but my problems go Far beyond that. I've lived with a chronic illness my entire life, and in my younger days was in and out of the hospital pretty frequently, which meant a lot of missed social interactions. That, coupled with shyness/social anxiety, has left me feeling out of the loop as far as what "Normal is".

I used to spend a lot of time online, and was always pretty good with meeting people, getting girls, etc, when it was strictly online. But now I'm fairly healthy, and of course, I need to move beyond online, but when I try to be myself in person, I'm too nice, too complimentary, and I feel like I 'Cant' say the things that I'd have no problem saying online. I'm slowly getting better, constantly pushing myself out of the comfort zone, and now, hoping that some tips from this site will help me to be myself out there, and not just on here (online). Anyways, thanks for reading, looking forward to this!

Stop being so nice to people. It will get you nowhere in life besides walked all over. Make yourself memorable...

Anyways, welcome to the forum bro