So i've been talking to this 10/10 ukrainian girl for about 2.5mths now. She lives in San Antonio. I live in Houston.

While on a job there for 3 wks we connected. We've kissed. She sucked my dick. We became bf and gf. Since then 2mths have passed with me being in Houston and her in SA. She says she wants to take it slow. Not be bf and gf anymore. Not jump into a relationship. She's says she wants to get to know me better. We still say 'I love you'. Definite case of oneitis as I actually do want to pursue an LTR with this girl.

I'm moving to SA in the next month. Partly to start a new life. Mainly for her.

I'm so confused as to why she keeps me at arm's-length still. Why she wants to take a giant step backward rather than small steps forward. Just FYI, I highly doubt she's involved with someone else. Her personality is very introverted and she's very into guys being 'gentlemanly' to her. I get the strong impression that she thinks I'm a 'player' or some shit. But, in truth, I've probably been getting too attached and I've been nothing but loyal to her.

My question: How do I expedite this with a girl who wants to take it sooooo goddamn slow I can hardly stand it?

By taking it slower than HER.

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