Hi everybody,

I've got quite a handful of missed opportunities i should say. Girls do like me for my quirky character, but I fail miserably at escalating things only to find out that I've upset them and they get with someone else.

I do attract women when I go clubbing, mainly because of my afro hair and my near perfect running-man. Again, I fail at escalating things as I'm with my friends (both guys and girls) from work and I wonder what they're going to think if I made a move.

Like many engineers, I'm a very logical thinker. I've found the problem, now I want to fix it!

Let me know what you think

Don't be afraid of what your co-workers think or what your friends think. It is your life. You don't let anyone tell you what to do with it or try and change it. Get new friends or get a new job if they make you feel any differently.

practise makes perfect, read up on attraction, seduction and rapport building techniques to help make sure you can establish a base of trust (even if superficial) before escalation.

study up, write up some routines from your new found knowledge, test the shit out of it, fix where there are errors.

I'm a computer science student, that logic is working really well for me.

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You know its not to hard to just go up to a girl you like, and just say "Smile!" and use your fingers to push the corners of your mouth up.
best opener I've ever made and used... unfortunately it doesn't work on girls who are already smiling...

Thanks guys! I've just bought "The Game" by Neil Strauss and have been reading through. It's very interesting, and helping.

I've also been considering the bootcamp by Gambler in London, but I saw some mediocre reviews about it, so I'm having second thoughts. Have you had any experience with bootcamps at all?