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I am 29 years old and almost a virgin. I have had 3 girlfriends - 1st girlfriend - 3 months (Long distance and she cheated .. caught her with pictures and she confessed later), 2nd - 1 month (she wouldn't let me touch her expect kiss a lil .. I got fed up after a month and left), 3rd girlfriend - 3 months (she cheated .. she had a hickey on neck and random check on texts revealed it) but with these girls I only kissed but the last one I had one full (s#x) session and then I broke up due to cheating.
Now I feel I should have not broke up and just kept them on the side (like booty calls) ... but my ego just got in the way .. but now I have learned. Also, I spent a lot of money on the last girl, and she just ignored me mostly and then cheated.
I am 6 feet tall, lean guy (East Indian) but I work out and have cuts. I am very polite and always accomodate to people, and especially to girls I talk to them as friends and usually later on ask if they want to go out. I have had a lot of rejections with girls at bars and clubs. In other scenarios (class, work, sports) I have always been a friend to them and not made that move to ask them out due to fear I guess. I have drive a good sports car, good job and am able to spend on fashion.
I want to be a good PUA, I am not expecting to be a master since I am already late to the scene. I just wanna get laid once a week or twice a month ... that's my goal (cause my sex life is almost non-existant for 29 years .. only one encounter).
Where do I start?
You are definitely starting in the right place.
Stop being so fucking polite tho. Being nice will not make people like you. You want to be memorable. Girls are not slot machines that you dump kindness coins into and sex comes out.
And you still CAN and WILL master this as long as you put forth the effort. It is never too late.
CHAT