Hi everyone

My nickname is jem and was born i raised in socal. Honestly, I'm just trying to better myself in life with everything that i do. I used to have self esteem issues but everyday i take a step towards being the person i should be compared to the person I am. Its been a long journey since i told myself i had to change everything but it has been worth it. One day i was watching crazy stupid love and thought to myself Ryan Gosling character really doesn't look that hard if you just apply yourself.

I ended up loosing 100 pounds in over a year, started Muay Thai, New attire, New hair, Better attitude, bigger pockets etc etc. Now there is just one more piece missing in this whole equation and that is being me. I still have a lot to learn but ill be damned if i dont do it .Anyways thanks for reading. I hope to learn from all you guys .....Good and Bad info

Welcome to the community bro. You are starting in the right place!

Thanks for the welcome...Started to feel like noe one read it :p....btw north side or south side?

SOUTH SIDE! BORN AND RAISED! lol you from Chicago?

Welcome, you seem mature enough for guys to want to help you out. If you ever go on the pua chat, I can probably help you out.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

@method..nah born and raised in socal. Just another delusional cubs fan :p

@mrmatt...Thanks so much. Ill try to sneak in later on today.