Recently I realized that I needed to improve my luck with women, and after stumbling onto DocLove, GirlsChase & "The Game" by Neil Strauss, I stumbled my way to find this great community. Here is a bit about me...

I'm actually not a shy person, I have the balls to approach and confidence to stand up for myself, I work out, dress well or above average, I teach salsa dancing and in the salsa bar I go to I'm surrounded by women of all ages who see me and want to dance with me.

"So what's my problem then?" I hear you ask!

My main problem, or Sticking Point, is that I'm not very conversation savvy. I was raised in a christian home, and I have a bit of a serious, business like nature. So even though I smile, I'm friendly and not awkward, I'm not sexy enough and don't have that conversational wit and charm, so I cannot get women interested quickly or effectively.

I have gotten lucky once in a while and I'm currently with my latest fling from about a month ago, but that's not enough for me, time to step up my game.

See you around gentlemen

great to meet you, man
from a young age i've been interested in financial markets, spirituality and self-improvement (dont ask how these mix), in other words - concentrated on myself, introspective, living in some sort of a mental shell. Also, the conversational tone was too formal and serious.
I too have had this exact same sticking point - i was able to open and keep the girl interested but there wasnt any sexual spark, many times i've been friendzoned.
what did i change about myself to improve this quickly - I focused on being more relaxed and not giving a sh*t, just amusing myself. How? I watched many comedy shows like the office, its always sunny in philadelphia, friends, modern family, HIMYM etc etc wrote down every good line, tried imitating jestures and facial expressions. Then read a few books on writing jokes and improvisation. Now i was able to tease the hell out of girls, totally amusing myself and actually not caring about the outcome. This is seriously important - if you are dependent on the outcome (kiss, sex, relationship), they WILL catch up on it, they WILL sense it. Once I stopped caring what will happen, BOOM, girls started chasing me
Also, probably a good idea will be to raise your testosterone levels a bit (read Tim Ferris' The 4-hour body on this one), sign up for some more aggressive martial art and generally hang out more with bad guys. Also did a lot for me - i built confidence, become more Alpha-like, was able to let go and joke around all the time

So good luck, man, wish you a great journey

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Dance floor game a bit different than regular game, just show with your dancing an actions that you are attractive, no needy etc... i usually do verbals to a minimum, maybe 10% dancing 90%...If dancing is your strength follow my stuff, since i do dance game(link to my blog in the signature)... The problem i have with salsa is that is too much courtship type behavior in latin clubs, so is not as fast as regular club.

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