Hello, My name Is Jon. I am new here and I am looking to change with, hopefully, so help here. You see over and over again I allow women to, at no fault of their own, to rob me of my masculinity. I could get into specific stories but I am sure many have been through what I have done. Always trying to be the nice guy always buying gifts and showering them with compliments. Needless to say I'm the one after its over wondering what happened. Finally, after reading articles and some stuff on here its me! I allow it too happen and make excuses. NO MORE! This is my time and I deserve to be happy! So hopefully Ill get to meet some of you and learn new ways!