Hi everyone,

My girlfriend of 4.5 years, and my first ever girlfriend broke up with me recently, and needless to say, I have been quite devastated. I realised we are unlikely to get back together, so I have to work on my game to learn to meet and date women and get on with my life.

A little about me. I am 23, from Hong Kong, currently studying for a master student in business in London, a programme for which I have 6 more months, after which I plan on moving to new York. I am very short, 5 foot 3, and Asian, something which concerns me in the aspect of women being attracted to me. However, whenever I get worried about this, I just think, JT Tran can do it, so if I work hard enough, so can I. Also, I do like tall women. Not sure how realistic a goal that is at the moment.

I have started taking control of my life. I got a style consultation today to improve my wardrobe and become more fashionable. I have also read some of the material like The Game, and really like David D's C+F material. I have been shy most of my life, but recently I have started trying to overcome it by talking to random people in the street. In fact, I am going to be in Chicago for a day and Singapore for 4 days over Easter break, and my goal is to practice street approaches (I don't like bars or clubs) and see if I can get a number close. It's the first step in what may be a long journey, but in the end, I hope to find a girl that shares my interests and is both beautiful and fun to be with.

Nice to meet you all,
- TheLingo