I have read through the first few chapters of The Game by Niel Strauss.

I am nineteen years old, studying computer science, when this school year ends in a month I am moving into a house with four attractive social girls so I would really like to know what to do at a bar or club. I also want to try out sex.

Although being at university and living on residence I have not made any friends. I have an introverted personality (INTJ) and spend all my time alone. I am involved in hacking communities so spend all my time online. I do have a female friend that I'll be living with who asks me to hangout occasionally, having dinner downtown in a few days. I am never sure of her intentions though.

I am overweight and ugly so that is the first limitation to sex. This is being solved by doing a daily 600 calorie cardio at the gym and changing my diet to much better foods. I have already saw improvements and had to go buy new jeans. I am tall, great face, nice hair, good clothes, so once I stop being fat I'll consequently become attractive. This is nice because I know that eventually I could just go to bars and introduce myself as the virgin who is looking to lose it this moment. Rinse and repeat and I'll eventually get it.

The other limitation to having sex my bad personality and that is what I hope to improve from coming here.

I am unsure the psychological issues that would make some men need to have sex with multiple woman; especially since the PUA techniques are only targeted toward bar sluts with double digit IQs. I find it funny how the guys think they are good but they can only get girls with no value. Anyway I don't plan to get absorbed into this and waste my life "gaming". However I do feel this can help me with my virginity issue and once I have the sexual experience and a developed personality I can secure either a girlfriend or a casual sex partner.

Since eighteen the idea of going to a prostitute has been in my mind. In my city a high class escort is around $240/hr. They require clients to wear condoms and are in actuality much cleaner than those club girls. There is just the obvious negatives that come with losing your virginity to a prostitute so I would rather try to have casual sex with a slut from a bar or party.

I have always thought that PUA was bullshit but I do study some psychological and have a manipulative personality myself so I was intrigued when I saw legitimacy from the NLP and the evolutionary psychology.

This forum seems to contain information on what I need to learn to achieve this.