Hey I need advice. I've never been really good with the ladies. About two weeks ago I came out of a one year relationship in which I was acting really AFC. The loss prompted me to work on myself as well as my skills with women.

I actually seduced a girl about a week ago using some material from "the game" and some original routines. I also met a farking hb8 the other day that was showing an array of IOI's, I n-closed her and have a coffee meeting Tuesday (I had to pick that day because I'm spending this week in another state.)

Now my problem is my ex has just contacted me saying she misses me and that she hopes its not the end of us(she was also the one that ended it). I replied with a really AFC remark so I wouldn't hurt her feelings. Now I'm feeling a strong case of one-itis, like I'm meant to be with her but she treated me like shit most of the relationship I can easily remember the bad she put me through, but when she starts being all sweet and insecure I farking melt. How can I get over this. I would really appreciate any advice.

Hey Tuglucky,

This doesn't seem to be a bad case of one-itis. In my opinion, it's different when it's an ex just because feelings don't always go away completely. However, it is a case of one-itis nonetheless, and this is something I can definitely relate to. I am terrible with one-itis and it is one of the major things I am currently working on. It looks to me like you are taking the right steps, though. You number-closed that HB8 and even set up a date with her. When I start feeling one-itis, the only thing that cures it for me is to try talking to other girls. Even if I fail and get shut down, it is still fun and takes my mind off the other girl. When I do number-close other girls, I almost completely forget about that girl that I have one-itis with. My advice is just to remember that there are other girls out there and that you can get them. You already proved this to yourself with that HB8. Go on the coffee date with her and work on ignoring your ex. I think you'll find yourself forgetting all about her as you continue sarging other girls.

Hope I helped in some way!

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