| Hey everyone! I just turned 22 a week ago and live in Atlanta, GA.
I have never been particularly "impressive" when it comes to women, but I wouldn't say I'm a chump either. I have natural charisma and am (so I've been told) an attractive guy. Sometimes, however, I let my nerves get the best of me. I've been with my fair share of ladies, 12, but never had the skills to land them at a whim. Most have been via relationships which just kind of happen for me. We meet at random and happen to hit it off very well, but like I said I'm looking for the skills and confidence to put myself out there more frequently.
I have lady killer hobbies, for instance, I am a DJ and an artist of many mediums including spray paint, clay, canvases, etc. These things can only take me so far though. A conversation about my favorite graffiti artists or techniques isn't going to get me far. Likewise for the music scene. I graduated from Audio Engineering school but currently am working at my long time friend/roommates pottery shop, so money isn't exactly pouring in. I'm working on starting a clothing line at the moment so I do have a great sense of style, and keep myself fairly well groomed (admittedly I do get scraggly from time to time).
I just got out of a year long relationship with the definition of a "crazy b*tch" and for whatever reason am still hung up... Pathetic, I know, but that's why I joined. My friend had told me about "The Game" by Neil S. a while back and I decided to go ahead and read it now. I'm about 1/3 of the way through and it has been more than anything an inspiration. I'm looking for more specific examples of all these techniques though. I'm sure as I finish the book I will pick up on more of them but I figured I may as well start the rest of the research now.
I can't wait to pick up on all this new lifestyle has to offer!
Let me know if you have any pointers for a guy like me right out the gate!
-Prekog
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