Whats up! Recently out of a horrible relationship 5 years with the girl from hell. I immediatly bought toa of badass. I went to the bar one night and attracted a girl heavily with the methods closed with a kiss and a number. It was her birthday that night and I even had her buy me a shot on her birthday. After I kissed her I said ok I am out and she said "what thats it". And then she invited herself to my place I said yes but her sister blocked.

I began texting banter to her just having fun and she responded well. I then called her to hang out. I tried to set something up just me and her on Sun but she said she wanted to meet up Fri (which was my birthday). I went to the bar with 5 High value guys and when I showed up she was with freind two of them being guys. I played it off even talked to other girls which seemed to get some attention. But I had no way to get on the inside cause the two guys were on the outside chairs. I finally just went over and extended my hand palm up. I pulled her out and spinned her but in the opposite direction that I was supposed to. Not smooth still a beginner. But I got her to come outside and have a smoke with her. I bantered only a little but she was not as responsive as the wee before. I decided to make her qualify anyways. She did but reluctantly. I then built report only on one topic and did not release smoothly. We then started to have a lot of fun but no report building. Everyone kept buying me shot after shot I even made freinds with one of the guys that may have been my compotition but I turned caveman after being too drunk. Began kissing her then took her up to my apartment next door and into my bed. We kissed but then she said I have to find my sister and so we went back to the bar.

She called me at like 430am and I was passed out but my freinds thought it would be funny to act like me. They asked her to go on a movie dat in the afternoon the next day and I also beleive they ask her to come over and she agreed to right then. But she didnt because she called back and know one answered.

The next day woke up and saw a text that said "you a ho" because I fell asleep. I bantered back. I am trying to set something up tuesday but she is a little reluctant but still responds.

Did I screw it up by going cavema? And why do you think attraction building did not go well as it did the week before? was it because of the other dude? What should be my next step how should I text how should I proceed?

"Did I screw up with caveman" not really because she was playing along and kissing you back and she let you take up to your apartment. What she pulled here was ASD ( Anti-Slut Defense: The manuevers some women make to avoid taking responsibility for initiating or agreeing to sex, or in order to avoid appearing slutty to the man she's with, to her friends, to society, or herself ). Your sillly friends acted on the pretense of you and probaly messed you up and did you tell her what happen that night you passed out?

I hoped I helped you out and thanks for reading

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Yeah I Text and said "funniest thing ever.... I past out last night and I guess you talked to Josh who was acting like me"
She said "LOL wow he sounded just like you"

I said "Thats it I am breaking up with you since you can't tell my voice from any Tom, Dick, or Harry."

We continue to banter and she responds to me but have not sealed the date she said she would let me know her schedule to see when we could hook up. But has not told me yet.

One time I said lets hang out sunday and she said ok then came back later with its my freinds b-day.

so I said Go hang out with your freind for their b-day we can get together some other time.

She said well I said we are not sure if we are doing anything yet.

I was thinking about calling her tonight if I do should I banter report qualify?

Maybe try and freeze her out for the night or so just to build some small attraction then text her later tomorrow. Could build attraction and everyone knows that's a good thing haha

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