Refuse to sleep, or more appropriately sleep in my own bed every night. I have a little bit of time before going back to college and on top of a little bit of legit networking for my career and business interests I have in the city, and some part-time work/job-shadowing, I'll be out sarging and just hanging out with friends. I have no apartment, no hotel, and enormous self-discipline to obtain neither. I just ended a very meaningful relationship, in my view anyhow, with a girl I spent two years with. For those interested, you can read about it at: topic149562.html.

I admit, I do feel a little shaken and out of practice after this experience. My actions were very AFC-like. I rarely fall in love with women so reacted completely on emotion. That is going to change now. I want to take control of my life again and so in addition to my business in the city I have no accommodations and instead plan to meet a new girl everyday, (maybe a regular here and there) fuck, sleep over, leave, and repeat. I'm moving from the suburbs where sarging is limited to grocery stores, a few shops, and a few bars with mostly mid-30 patrons. Far more opportunities in NYC to say "next, next, next."

This is a bit of social experiment for me. I have the resources to book a hostel on the upper-west side or call on a friend to put me up on his couch, but I'd sooner nap in the cold in central park than give up my mission. At the least, I'm storing my luggage and clothes at a friends place to change, shower, and just keep my things till I go back to school, other than that, I'm out sarging. I'm willing to learn and make as many mistakes as it takes to hone my craft as a PUA. So hello all, I'm Ketel1, I'll be frequenting your forum, which I consider a bastion of hope for men. I can even submit updates on my experiences and get input on methods of improvement. And if anyone here is from NYC and wants to meet up, give me a shout, I'll be checking my PM's as well as this thread. Happy New Years all.

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He said, "Son, whenever you meet a beautiful woman..Just remember, somewhere there's a bloke who's sick of shagging her."
- Alfie

Day 1: I finish my business attending a firmwide information session and fireside chat with senior management, they have catering in the office, we all eat, afterward my friends and I go to a bar in midtown. These guys aren't exactly PUA, or AFC material. Most have steady relationships and found my mission absurd/crazy/unrealistic. Just as one guy told me there was no way in hell I was going to get the results I want in NYC, something about everyone keeping to themselves, etc, etc...Some HB9 walks in alone. I stand up and walk over to the bar. (again I'm coming out of an LTR so hadn't been playing the field for awhile). My friends all watching me silently.

She sits down at the bar, I sit down next to her, the bar was surprisingly quiet/empty so made for conversation where we didn't have to yell over each other. I make quick eye contact, smirk at her, the barman approaches, I order for myself, and go "And my girlfriend here will have....What would you like?" she laughs and orders a pinot grigio. So she'd just gotten off work and we get talking, she tells me she recently broke up with her boyfriend (things just got easier). She asks me what I'm drinking, I tell her a White Russian, she picks up my drink and takes a sip, I take her hand in mine holding it, within minutes we're making out. I see my friends watching, one of them mouthing "What the fuck?" to me. I ask her where she lives, tell her I want us to be alone. We go back to her place, and well, the rest took care of itself.

Score:
Ketel1 1
NYC 0


P.S: This will be my last post to this thread unless I see some form of interest/hate/general replies to my thread.

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He said, "Son, whenever you meet a beautiful woman..Just remember, somewhere there's a bloke who's sick of shagging her."
- Alfie