November 14, 2012

Day 1 of the rest of my life. After a year of reading, learning, one boot camp, listening and experiencing by watching videos but not taking much action, today is the day I decide to unleash myself, on my own, into the game! Its been decided to document my interactions for the sake of learning and hopefully getting some skilled guys to contribute some feedback.

Had 30 minutes for lunch and was stressed out because the morning was rough. Went to local Asian place for a quick lunch, not planning on meeting anyone. Was planning to unleash the dragon after work. Surprisingly, I found a cute girl at the counter. She was in standard work mode and asked what I wanted. I noticed she had an accent, was younger, dressed younger, and looked a bit foreign. Instead of answering I said, “how is, your, day?” She changed her whole demeanor gave a big smile and said, “Good.” Then said, what are you having?

I order. Then the fountain machine has a hiccup and she comes over and asks what drink I was having. She goes back into work mode and fixes the carbonation tank. She brings out my food in standard work mode and runs off. She was clearly a bit busy.

I’m sitting enjoying my food and notice a little stop in the action for her while she is wiping down a table. She is a hot foreign girl, about 18, perfect teen body with small boobs and a perfect legs and ass combination dressed in tight jeans and shirt. Gave me that instant penis jolt. At this point I say fuck it, this girl is hot, I’m not losing this opportunity.

I ask from my table, “So, where are you from?”

She says, “I’m from Bosnia.”

I say, “ that’s cool.”

She says quickly, “ so where did you think I was from?! (HUGE SMILE) as she walks towards the kitchen.

My mind decides she is into me because otherwise she wouldn’t have added that question back to me with that amount of interest.

I say, “I figured you were from somewhere like that.” She smiles and has to run back to kitchen.

She goes into kitchen. I’m finishing up my food. She walks back out into dining area and pretends to wipe a tiny piece of imaginary crumb off the table, looks at me, and walks back to counter. This time I don’t say anything because I have mouth full of food but I thought to myself, that little thing she did was just to come back out and talk to me some more. It probably was good that I unintentionally didn’t give her what she wanted.

I finish up and walk over to the counter and just stand there to talk to her. I’m start talking about a sex trade movie based in Bosnia. There were many ways I could have gone with discussing Bosnia but I wanted to say something sexual, just to plant it in her head.

We keep talking about accents, Bosnia, traveling and where she’s from where I’m from etc.

She has to deliver food so she says, “wait here, I’ll be right back.”

At some point I tell her that even though she is fully American (been here since 3 years old) her accent and style still give her “a distinctive look, that makes you stand out from everyone else.” She LOVES this and I notice some of those puppy dog eyes and then the phone rings and she starts to take the next order.

I find myself just standing there waiting like a chump so I ejected myself by waving bye and whispering to her, “I’ve got to go.”

She shouts back as I’m walking, “Have a nice day!”

Now I’m thinking I should have waited it out because she was giving so many cues that she was into me that she probably would not have thought too negatively of me if was just standing there waiting to ask her for her number. I’m pretty sure she is disappointed that I didn’t wait. My next topic was going to be what she likes to do, make plans to talk more later, and exchange numbers.
Now, I’ve got to go back and start it up again.

Learning points: I was paying attention to customers coming in to interrupt but I didn’t consider the telephone ringing for take-out! Didn’t get to point to get the number. Didn’t have the time to make plans. I really wanted to tell her that I loved her body type because usually girls like her have such tight small pussies…but I didn’t. If I had said that then I think there would be no chump factor no matter how long I waited for her to finish. Waiting it out might have been a whole lot easier than trying to go back in. Now, I’ll have to pretend to want take-out for tonight, or go to Starbucks for coffee and just walk over and chat, or go back during lunch tomorrow.