i am new to the whole PU community and i would like to introduce myself before i start on this new thrilling journey.
i just turned 24 yrs old on the 22nd of july, i currently work for a bank in the mortgage department(boring). If i was to rate myself in looks from a scale to 1-10(which i know looks is not as important as i think it is) ill probably rate my self as a 6
, height about 5'6 and just about a normal body not to fat nor too skinny.(i go to the gym when ever i feel like it)
My social life is not all the great at the moment, well to start off i actually never really had a problem with girls or maybe to a point. i lost my virginity at the age of 15, i fucked a stripper(hb 6-7) on my 16th birthday, she said i did pretty good lol(told her i watched alot of porn growing up
) and never really had to use any "PU" to attract a girl, i guess i can say that attraction comes naturally to me, i see things differently, handle things differently and i carry myself pretty well.
i guess the pinnacle moment of my life when it comes to dating was when i dated this 22 yr old(hb 7-8) at the age of 18, she thought me everything i know in a relationship and since i was a dumb kid i let myself get so caught up with the idea of love that she obviously broke my heart and it ended badly, i did not take it so well and it was a very depressing moment of my life, i lost faith in love(i know im such a bitch lol) i then re evaluated my self and took my dad's advice "you deserve better, dont ever tell yourself your not good enough and if she cant see that then thats her lost" and of course the "there's alot of fish in the sea" which in all honesty is absolutely true. so i eventually moved on and told myself that i will never be a fool for love again.
im 24 and i have had sex with 7 different woman, i dont think those are good odds but keep in mind that i am more of a relationship type of guy, and my most recent relationship was with a girl(hb 10) that i met and dated for 2 years, she is the most beautiful girl i have ever dated, sexy ass body and for me to get her to fall inlove like she did is just unreal, the sex was amazing, we did it pretty much every day and we could just not get enough and like all relationship this one ended recently. the reason it ended was the way i started to treat her after she tattoo'd my name on her body(below the left breast) i guess when she showed me i was confused on how i should feel about it, i would ask myself that i should be fucking happy this HB10 has my name on her, but as time flew by i ended up taking her for granted, started to treat her like shit, i basically became a huge dick. she then had enough and broke up with me(lol i dont blame her) but then after a few weeks i realized i actually love her and that is when i became a complete AFC, i tried getting her back literally begged for her to give me a chance, but she actually met somebody else, so we ended up fucking one last time but that was the end of that.:'(
its been 2 months now since i last had sex.(going on a dry spell here) and faith has not sent me a new girl for me to start flirting with,(i usually wait till i meet someone either through work or friend gatherings) but i cant wait any more, i am 24 now and i want to be able to meet girls everyday.
God answered my prayers lol my brother introduced me to the book "the game" by neil strauss and i was hooked. i was surprised that there is actually a system on how to attract girls, and a community of PUA that help eachother out. i realized that all this time ive been doing things almost the same way, i am an expert at push and pull i would think, but my only problem was to talk to a random stranger whether it would be on the street, supermarket, the coffee shop or the club and start a conversation. im usually good with talking to a girl but its just starting a conversation and getting them to stay long enough for me to show them who i am. lol thank God for niel strauss and the game i just got the tools to start picking up girls everywhere.
im am going to start a pick up diary of my transition to a AFC into a decent PUA and hopefully in this journey of mine find what i would like to call " my life long treasure of destiny"
my soulmate.
CHAT