Hi there. I've decided to register for this site because I have been a complete failure with women and was hoping to somehow see if I can change things. I'm 37 now and the only gf I have ever had was when I was 18. I have no game and struggle when it comes to meeting people. Especially women I'm attracted to.

3 years ago I had to relocate for work to a new city where I knew no one. This only highlighted my issues. I spend 90% of my time by myself and it's getting lonely since my friends aren't around. I've tried internet dating and have gone on some dates, but they always end up the same way. I go out on one date and never hear from them again. I feel like I've come to an all time low after being blown off by the first date I've had in months. I guess I'm here to see if I can somehow make a change for the better.

Hi there.

Pick up is about working on your life. You need to take it one step at a time and not necessarily go straight to attempting to pick up women. An example would be your 'social life'. It is currently non-existent, so that is something you could work on before trying to seduce women. Your clothing, grooming, body language etc are also good starting points.

Have a search through the forum to get an idea on what you need to work on.

One option is to attend some 'seminars' about picking up women. You can get one-on-one training, you will be around other people who are trying to learn how to pick up women and it is a great way to meet friends. Can be pricey and you will obviously have to do some research into finding the right one for you.

Good luck, it will take time to get really good with women because you have to learn from mistakes and constantly be practising but you can get some results pretty quickly if you put the effort in.