Here's the score....I met this girl who world at my apartment community and the kino is dead on. After a bit of hard to get I found out she has a boyfriend. The guy is a total beta male and obviously I'm the guy winning her interest. This woman has a kid with the guy, and rev tells me she doesn't want him. They live together etc and from my perspective the girl wants to make sure her investment in me its a safe bet. I invited her to my place for wine, and things got heated...affection galore! Granted we only had 30 minutes our first time alone because she snuck off the radar to see me. Its an interesting dynamic because I've hanged girls with guys, but not with kids. Having a kid myself I understand how that can change the approach. The advice I'm seeking concerns the next steps I should take in getting her to leave her current situation for me tactfully for success...check and mate!