So I'm here basically because I seem to get a lot of trouble making a girl comfortable and have massive approach anxiety until I've downed a few drinks

Once I'm nicely liquored up I have a certain amount of charm that has led me to lots of random social interactions and make outs but not to sex or relationship

A big light bulb moment was something mystery said when he goes it takes like 6-8 hours from meet to sex

Anyway it I thought about it and realized that the times I have gone 'full monty' has been usually after seeing the girl at least a few times generally over 10hrs total interaction

I've been trying to learn some more comfort building routines as I seem to be good at getting girls attention, opening, making myself seem different, usually reach the hook point no problem but then usually kino escalate way too quickly get a make out then later buyers remorse

Also kind of wonder about the drinking I know the PUA masters mostly don't drink at all but without any I feel completely out of sync and frozen