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i would be curious how you dress; whenever i see the really super-shredded muscle guys wearing skintight clothing they come off as trying way too hard. just like the wisdom that women dress up not to get men's attention but to compete with other women, men pump iron to impress/outdo other men. women are not overly impressed with a great body
Yeah, I think I have noticed that as well. Don't get me wrong if I'm in the process of hooking up, it's deff a plus, but otherwise it doesn't really seem to get me in the door. And yeah, dress is a loose term, I party all the time and usually end up taking my shirt off lol. But normally, I where a lot of tanks, and muscle revealing clothing. I thought that this could considered a form of peacooking though (and was thus a good thing to do)? I feel like it definitely sets me apart from most of the other guys at my school. I don't feel like my body is hurting my chances with girls at all, it's just not doing as much as I thought it would when I started.