Hey guys. I had a quick question or two, that baffles me a bit. Here's my story as quickly and concise as possible. This co-worker of mine at the office is dating another guy, whom she is extremely unhappy with. I've hooked up before with her... (I know BF Destroyer), and after the last hookup we went our separate ways as per usual. The last week or so, she hasn't been texting me nearly as much, and seems to be a bit short with me too. I am simply trying to figure out if perhaps she is feeling guilty about our hookups. I really like this chick, and I have her best interests in mind.

Why do you think that she has been a bit quieter towards me as of late, and more standoffish? Is this behavior been exhibited by girls that you guys have been with common? This isn't my standard hookup! It's got me a wee bit confused. Any help would be awesome, and I'll make sure to help you guys out!

Thanks! Very Happy

Hey whats going on, I'm actually new here as well, sorry you been stressing about this bro, i been in this situation before and respectfully when a girl has a boyfriend or just broken up with someone is best to keep feelings away, by all means go ahead chill w her and if you two hook up even better, but i am saying this to protect you from getting hurt, she is already involved emotionally with someone else and as much as she is unhappy there will still be remorse for the kiss she shared with you , not because of you but because of her boyfriend. give her space, and try to still hang out with her but dont push it if she isnt responding because it can end up bad she probably just needs her space, but do stay in touch shell come around

Best of luck !

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Antdman