Hey guys

I just moved to London and am looking forward to going out and meeting new people.

I'm 24, 5'9. and a bartender. Which is great because women approach me (yes mostly just for another round of tequila) but on occasion one will start up flirting and we can go from there. Unfortunately this does not allow me any field practice and I still have yet to approach a girl. Ever. To say that I have approach anxiety is an understatement.

I've happily been with a number of girls but failed at astronomically more (they do say this is a numbers game right?), and almost all for the same reason. I'm the nice guy. I believe the term you blokes use is AFC. Yep, I was "the friend". Which I would never have minded except that friends deserve to get laid too. Don't we?

Instead I'd just get to hear endless stories of how much girls bf's were assholes or miss treated them n stuff. I'd always get the same line "I wish I could just meet a guy like you"... Are you kiding me! I'm a guy like me! Am I invisible? .. To say my youth was confusing and frustrating was, well, you get the point. We're all hear for the same reason.

I'd say I've vastly improved in the last year but still consider myself very much a newbie (moved to London mostly to get over AA). Cant wait to get some of your feedback and criticism, n hopefully meet some of you for sarging and general life awesomeness.

Live hard brothers
NickNja

Hi Nik hows it going?

Iam Ed

I am not a firm believer in routines when meeting women because whether your a really good PUA it doesn't always work. It should be natural and flowing. Using eye contact most of the time and kino as soon as possible.

I can see by what you have told me that your a confident guy because you meet hundreds of different ppl all the time as you work behind the bar. So that is a powerful trait you already acquire you just need more in field time.

Iam Looking for a wingman around essex/london area.

Message me if you want to know more.

Ed