Hey martianzebra welcome
It's great to see
South African dudes find their way onto this forum there is
alot you can learn on here.
Checkout my thread
SA JHB lair in the lair
section of this forum for all SA pickup related stuff!
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i am 21 going on 22, (havnt ever had a girlfriend)
Don't feel too bad man, I'm also 21 going on 22 and never had
a GF before. I was a pretty shy and socially awkward kid growing
up so no one ever showed me the way, I've pretty much had to
figure it out for myself...the main thing is that this is you're first
step to a better life in the community. 'The Game' really
changed my entire perspective on life! Although I
only officially started practicing my game last
year August I've learnt so much already
from just theory alone...I can't wait to
see where this journey will take me
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ive seen 2 seasons of the pickup artists and watched a number of mystery and gambler youtube vids! but ive only just recently started actually practicing pick up, i cant remember everything in field but im getting there, i recently had my first number close but i had an opportunity to take the set further but couldnt remember how at the time haha!
The Pickup Artist is a really entertaining show. Although it is a
little wierd seeing a little bit of yourself in some or even most
of those guys that go on the show! The one guy that really
hit me the most was when Kosmo entered the club and
he bought himself a drink...and he just became a wall
flower by not doing anything or talking to anyone...
I don't want to go back to that. I mean sure, I'm
also getting over my AA stages (slowly but surely)
but I atleast go into clubs and have fun now!
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the pickup method of mystery seems cool! but ill be learning from the best in order to create my own personal pickup methods that work for me.
Although I'm more into Direct game, inDirect is actually commonly
still used in SA which I am pretty intrigued to hear. If you want to
read a good book to kickstart you into the right direction read
'Rules Of The Game' by Neil Strauss, a.k.a Style. I've only
read a bit of it because the style of game doesn't really
apply that well to me, but since you like MM that
should get you started. Gambler is also a really
awesome PUA too, I tried learning his 'Stealth
Attraction" game but it was a little too complex
for me to put it properly haha. Check out
Adam Lyons I'm learning under him,
he's incredible !!
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my short term goals would be to get a girlfriend and and go beyond kissing.
also to build my confidence so much that i never have AA again.
You're like my long lost clone man me too man haha
I usually go practice at Sandton City during the week and
on the weekends so if you're in that region of SA pm me man.
Take it easy man and welcome once again
- Chai
CHAT
