Hey guys, i'm Dumble, 20 years old young man from Finland. It is time for me to find the new me.
I have always been very shy, quiet and really fucking unconfident. Since the past year i've been working on my self-esteem, which has gotten alot better. I really do feel better about myself, but not quite enough, yet. I still have a long journey ahead of me.
Socially i'm still.. Awkward. I never have anything to say. I think that is my biggest problem right now. Even when i am with my best friends, i never speak much, just listen what other people say. And when i do open my mouth, i talk so quietly most people can't even hear what i am saying. The only person i talk with like "a normal person" is my sister.
My score is 0. Never kissed a lady. However, there are girls that are/have been interested in me, which i find odd, because i look average at best, and combine that with my quiet personality, its not a great combination. But girls do approach me in bars, and when they do, i feel great. That of course changes the one second i open my mouth and go all beta-mode.
So, what are my goals?
* improve social skills
* get more confident
* get new friends
* get some sweet pussy
* eventually get a girlfriend
I have read The Game, and watched some videos, and i have a pretty good image of how this stuff works, but i'm still lacking a tiny bit of balls to actually start approaching girls. Have to start working on that.
I would also love to get some feedback on some lines i've come up with.
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Camera routine
Approach a set of 2+ girls.
Ask the target, if she could take a picture of you and the wing.
If yes, hand her the camera and start posing with the wing.
Once she has taken the picture, look at the picture with your wing, and neg the target by commenting on her shaky hands and the picture being really unclear.
Hand the camera over for the other girl in the set and tell her that you seem to have steady hands, you take the picture. Start posing with your wing again, but this time tell the target to pose with you, to make the picture seem less homoerotic
Get some touching action going while posing.
Continue from there with something like "how do you know each other?"
Quote:
Cat allergy (kinda c/f?)
Ask the target, if she is allergic to cats.
If she answers yes, tell her
"Shit. Guess you can't come over tonight then."
her: "What makes you think i want to come over?" or something
"Actually im just trying to come up with excuses to not let you in."
If she answers no, she is not allergic, tell her
"Great! Lets go to my place." or something like that.
her: "What makes you think i want to come over?" or something
"Actually im just trying to come up with excuses to not let you in."
Critique is welcome. I'm here to learn!
CHAT