Whats up guys. I wanted to share my story with you guys and let you know why i'm here. First off i want to say that I consider myself a good looking nice guy.; I workout, take care of myself, ect. , but when it comes down to meeting or attempting to speak to women, I have no game at all. I've only been in 2 real relationships and I dont really have sex with a lot of girls. My last relationship was a with an egyptian girl who i fell in love with. She was a virgin (fact) , deep into her muslim faith, very outgoing and ridiculously beautiful. I treated this girl like a queen and sacrificed large amounts of my time for her. I was falling for her. Well, a couple of months into our relationship, she tells me she has to confess something to me. Out of guilt, she confesses that she cheated on me ON MY BIRTHDAY and LOST HER VIRGINITY to an OLDER GUY who has 3 KIDS from 3 DIFFERENT BABY MOMMAS and HE CAME INSIDE OF HER and SHE MIGHT BE PREGNANT.. That seriously messed my head up and for the longest time i always wondered why she cheated on me. I was a good guy, I had a high paying job, a nice car, self sufficient, i was sincere & honest.. I guess she took my kindness for weakness at the end of the day. After that experience with her i went through a downhill spiral and was really depressed. I started drinking more and spent a lot of my time at the strip clubs. I lost my job and my car broke down. I went to Miami to get away from my problems to watch a Dolphins game and ended up in jail. (long story) While i was in jail i had a lot of time to think. I promised myself i'd never let a woman have power over me, and vowed to gain my confidence and dignity back. Once i got out, I started working out, and over time I started feeling really good about myself. I did a lot of self improvement, stopped drinking, quit smoking, and started appreciating life but i have a problem when it comes down to meeting women. Like i said before, I'm a nice guy and good looking, but women generally don't give me a chance and i get shut down often. This has led me to become somewhat anit-social and i've developed a strong hateful bias towards women. I not the type of guy to take control of situations. I'm more neutral and laid back but i want to change that aspect about myself and approach women fearlessly. I read The Game by Neil Strauss and was inspired to join a forum and become a PUA and to truly gain my confidence back. If theres any advice some of you guys can give me, i'd really appreciate it!

Thanks for reading guys,
SLR

you are like the poster child for AFC, but i'm sure you realize that. Well mr. nice guy your main problem is inner game, dont focus on techniques at this point.

Go out and buy/get "77 laws of success with woman" and memorize it asap , you need it bad. PM me for further personalized advice.

My story is very similar. Within the last year I lost my mom and girlfriend. My mom went crazy, and I found out that pretty much everything she's done in her life was a lie. My ex broke up with me and her mom actually sued me. Needless to say, my opionions of women were extremely negative. I was completely unhappy and tried to date, but realized I no longer had any game whatsoever. A long period of singleness, substance abuse, and depression ensued, culminating with a nasty health problem, which brought me to a new low in life. A friend, sensing I was in dire straights gave me a disc with The Game and Annihilation Method on it. I realized that I was not only not being my best self, but I was basically my WORST self. Over the last couple months I have had an awakening and changed many aspects in my life. I am sober now, I work out 6 days a week, and I'm sarging and networking with wings. That's why I am here now.

@detox75 your right, i have much self-improvement to do. I really appreciate the advice.

@puaninja I can relate to a lot of the things you went through. Thats great to hear how you bounced back and got sober. I'm trying to better myself as well day-by-day and become a better person.