hi i'm new to all this forum stuff... i'm usually quite good at getting with girls...but only really when i'm heavily inebriated with alcohol/drugs ... when it comes to seeing girls on dates when i'm sober i'm literally awful!! i get really nervous and can't think of what to talk about, and i generally hate dull small talk... i've been told by people to just act confident and ask them questions, but seriosuly, these questions run out...and i think if i just ask them about their family and siblings, childhood, job, or whatever it always just feels really false (probably because i dont find any of the subjects interesting). and i hate talking about myself on dates, i always feel like my life is incredibly uninteresting... and most the interesting stories are somehow related to drugs...and i generally try not to divulge that i'm a recreational drug user to women i'm trying to date!!

just to be clear, its not sleeping with women thats the problem... its keeping them attracted to me the next day when i'm sober... and by the way i should mention also that i suffer from anxiety so tend to get quite noticebly nervous when the dates not going really well! i've been told by some people that i am incredibly odd, but most people say in a good way, so i think my odd'ness goes ultra extrovert when i'm inebriated which probably works out in my favour. i just don't really know how to act when i'm sober.