Hello, my name is SNUZ. I am new to this forum, but am very much looking forward to learning as well as contributing some of my own ideas, etc.

I am 28 years old and from the U.S.A.

I have dated and such, and have had less success than I would hope. I do tend to attract girls that I myself am not attracted to (recent example, a Japanse female bartender that found out I listen to JPOP/JROCK here and there, and is constantly burning CDs to give to me when she sees me at the place again. She is just too much on the anorexic side for me, as I am into the more fit and athletic chicks).

My obstacle is that whenever I discover a girl that I would like to attract, I can never seem to do it. Call it the "oneitis" thing or what not. So I guess that is my goal from all of this, so hopefully I can make some progress. I would for once like to be out on a nice date with a girl that I can see myself being with long term.