Hey i just wanted to share my story of how i ended up wanting to do this, and to gain any information which would be useful of you guys cheers in advance

So im 21 and from Manchester England and im at university. ive slept with 20 girls (not bragging at all please dont take it like that) so that aspect has never been a major problem, does that make me a natural?.

Anyways for most of this year which is my first year at uni id only slept with one girl which was my girlfriend she was from canada toronto and then 2 more girls recently. I met my girlfriend and In my mind it was instant attraction, on the first day i arrived i saw her outside my accomadation she was easily a 9, and we hit it off, i invited her to watch a football match at a local bar and we didnt spend any free time apart from then on, back then i thought id found the one. anyways 8 amazing months flew by and then there was one month before she was leaving wed planned to stay together and id come and visit her in the summer.

before she was going for good she had a 3 week trip again travelling europe with her friend from back home, i wasnt worried at all because i trusted her, in my mind we where meant to be, while i was in that relationship i never cheated and if a girl happened to come on to me i would tell them straight about my girlfriend.

Anyways she goes on this trip then 4 days in calls me and tells me that were finished because in them 4 days she liked another guy.

At first i was cut up, broken, i couldnt imagine life without her.

but then i realised something. I didnt love her, she wasnt the one, she wasent even the right type of girl for me. I thought it was love but it was'nt

And ill tell you how i realised this. all the time once wed finished i thought i needed her love, i thought i needed her. but all i really needed was attention. I realised that any girl could give me the feeling she did and it was much easier, i craved to be wanted and when my girlfriend broke up with me for that time after when i was hurt i realised it was not her i was missing but the attention.

I went out around 2 weeks after the break up and ive been told im a good looking guy and i can approach so luckily that night i managed to sleep with some cute chick and everything again changed i didnt even consider my ex anymore she was a distant memory. i realised that im not after a girlfriend im i wanna meet woman and get that same buzz as much as possible.

the more i read this stuff the more i realise how many opportunities ive missed in my life just understanding IOIs gives you a massive advantage over normal guys and makes you realise the chances youve missed.

so thats my story cheers for reading

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