Here is a brief history of myself for anyone who may take interest!

I became aware and started getting involved with gaming and the seduction community when I was about seventeen. Before this I had major confidence issues though curiously I never had any problems getting girls. Looking back I was always dating the hottest girls in school despite being 'middle of the pack' and never being affiliated with the popular crews.

I think I have had always had a natural ability to 'see through' a woman, in many ways I actually think like women and share their perspective which is both a blessing and a curse!

Within a couple of months of actively gaming I found a special girl, I made her my girlfriend and we fell in love. We spent four years together and ultimately due to recurring health problems and study commitments in our lives we grew apart and the stresses got the best of us.

I left this relationship feeling quite damaged and bitter and I considered myself "out of the game" for a period of about a year. During this time I still had casual relations with a few women including a F-Buddy who strangely went on to become my best friend.

One day I just woke up and felt I wanted a relationship once more, that very day I arranged a date with a girl I knew was interested in me. We had a lot of fun and dated for a couple of months. She is now my current girlfriend of 6 months and I'd best describe our relationship as "rocky"! There are intense highs and lows and I am still adjusting. For the amateur (or professional) psychologists among you I can confirm that she is the distinct opposite in personality to my ex long term girl, make of that what you will!!

Lecture over! Questions? Welcomes? Critiques? Proposals? Diagnosis's?!

Peace

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You should difuse all drama she puts up in the relationships by ignoring it.

If a girl is mad she is going to look upset. You can ask her what is wrong and she

will tell you something like you should know or you know very well! This can drive

a man crazy. Instead just ignore it and pretend like everything is ok. That will drive

her crazy and shell just tell you why she is mad.

The most importaint thing is that you always stay calm. If she wants to start

arguing about a stupid thing just ignore it and be calm, change the subject.

That way youll callm her down and you wont have a rocky but solid relationship.

If something is bothering her you shouldnt ignore it, talk with her but the secound

she trys to bate you into arguing or she rases her tone ignore it. Change the

subject. Keep calm!

If I'm completely honest, I am high maintenance. That is me and I require a lot of everything in a relationship - love, sex, laughs, good times. My trade off is that I am worth the effort, I give as much (and often more) than what I get and because of this I feel my high expectations are justified.

My girl is low maintenance herself and therefore doesn't expect much so naturally doesn't feel the need to give out much also. The discrepancies in our expectations cause the friction in the relationship.

She suffered very poor SPAM at the hands of an ex and so is struck in some bad patterns of behaviour which magnifies the issues.

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